Profile

• Put some love into your profile and take some time with it. It’s the first impression you make and, just like on a date, you only do it once!
• Write a nice piece of text about yourself so other members have an idea of you.
• Do you find this difficult? You can, for example, tell them exactly what you are looking for on our platform. Are you looking for a nice relationship or an exciting date? If you are in a relationship but your partner likes you to date (other) women, you can also mention this. Always nice for other members to know that you are not secretly here if you are in a relationship. You can also tell them briefly about your interests and some of your character traits.
• Be sincere and fill out your profile honestly. To pretend otherwise is not okay and will sooner or later turn against you and ultimately only leads to disappointment.
• Check your profile text for any spelling mistakes.
• Do not include any personal information (address, phone number, email address, Instagram account etc) in your profile.

Photos

• Choose a clear, recent profile picture where you look nice and like yourself without a filter. One where your face is clearly visible and where you look friendly. Norse expressions can be off-putting. Your profile picture is the first picture members see of you so take some time for this too. If necessary, get a new photo if you can’t find a nice, recent and clear one.
• In addition, post several other recent photos that clearly show you.
• Make sure you don’t just post photos of just your face, but at least one photo that shows you in full, from head to toe. This way, the other person has a good idea of you and the chances of a successful date are higher because the other person has an idea of you as an overall picture.
• Do not post photos that you already use on other platforms such as social media (Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn etc).

Chat

• Have you found a nice lady and the interest is mutual? Let’s talk! In the chat, always be respectful and friendly. Treat the other as you would like to be treated yourself.
• Do not share any personal information in the chat.
• Let the contact initially take place via our chat, so don’t exchange phone numbers too quickly.
• Show interest by asking open questions, this also ensures that a conversation will start.
• Is there a click, are the conversations nice and do you have a good feeling about it? Then ask the other person if she enjoys meeting you. Chatting back and forth for too long is not necessary, after all, you only find out if you really match in real life.

On a date

• For a first date, always meet in a public place such as a restaurant or lunchroom.
• Make an effort before you go out the door. Make sure you are showered and smell fresh. Put on presentable clothes that look good on you and make you feel comfortable. Otherwise, above all, come off as yourself. Never wear make-up? Then don’t do so before a date. Do you normally wear make-up? Then do it on a date too, but don’t overdo it.
• Even on a date, be yourself and don’t pretend to be anything else.
• After the date, let the other person know how you liked it and if you want to see the other person again. We are all adults and that includes telling the other person honestly if a second date is in the cards or not. Leading the other on or ghosting is not okay and does you no credit! Again, be friendly, respectful and treat the other person as you would like to be treated.